<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post1291125119245638640..comments</id><updated>2009-06-27T22:53:14.207-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Eli Hornby: Lilly's Letter</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.elihornby.com/feeds/1291125119245638640/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html'/><author><name>Eli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177</uri><email>eli@elihornby.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-8656073941001311283</id><published>2009-06-27T22:29:50.908-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-27T22:29:50.908-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Amazing letter. Very honest. I hope she gets help....</title><content type='html'>Amazing letter. Very honest. I hope she gets help.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/8656073941001311283'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/8656073941001311283'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html?showComment=1246166990908#c8656073941001311283' title=''/><author><name>Tall Karen</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06278195551060786353</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='06061262462713613791'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1291125119245638640' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1291125119245638640' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2799628062512646054</id><published>2009-06-27T08:49:42.377-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-27T08:49:42.377-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Wonderful post Eli.  I also need others to help me...</title><content type='html'>Wonderful post Eli.  I also need others to help me stay sober.  Step meetings are good too, it&amp;#39;s my text book for living.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/2799628062512646054'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/2799628062512646054'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html?showComment=1246117782377#c2799628062512646054' title=''/><author><name>Findon</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08029106119199508890</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='00535227438228591460'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1291125119245638640' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1291125119245638640' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3298145651020321469</id><published>2009-06-26T09:24:34.777-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T09:24:34.777-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Eli,

How wonderful that her letter to you and you...</title><content type='html'>Eli,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How wonderful that her letter to you and your letter to her will help both of you tremendously.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your letter to her was open, honest, and beautiful.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/3298145651020321469'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/3298145651020321469'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html?showComment=1246033474777#c3298145651020321469' title=''/><author><name>Gin</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11927048986907155785</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12008383787491529460'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1291125119245638640' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1291125119245638640' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2331740115414809922</id><published>2009-06-26T09:20:54.793-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T09:20:54.793-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I am convinced that it cannot be done alone. Maybe...</title><content type='html'>I am convinced that it cannot be done alone. Maybe there is the exception, but it is rare. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I especially like you told her to get honest with her spouse, and enlist his support. Not every little thing, that would just get mean, but the big issues--the elephant in the room--needs to be talked about.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/2331740115414809922'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/2331740115414809922'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html?showComment=1246033254793#c2331740115414809922' title=''/><author><name>Lou</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09496172669599418214</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1291125119245638640' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1291125119245638640' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-5963209397604014441</id><published>2009-06-26T07:05:24.839-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T07:05:24.839-07:00</updated><title type='text'>What a beautiful response to your friends letter. ...</title><content type='html'>What a beautiful response to your friends letter. I mean really, how wonderful for her to be heard and understood. This is a huge part of the recovery process imo. To finally have someone get it, and to be able to share their ES&amp;amp;H....good job Eli. I loved reading this.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/5963209397604014441'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/5963209397604014441'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html?showComment=1246025124839#c5963209397604014441' title=''/><author><name>Annette</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15162361876666473618'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1291125119245638640' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1291125119245638640' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-6822159105989207978</id><published>2009-06-26T06:56:34.395-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T06:56:34.395-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Really nice letter. You shared your experience, st...</title><content type='html'>Really nice letter. You shared your experience, strength and hope. That&amp;#39;s about all any of us can do. Thanks for sharing this.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/6822159105989207978'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/6822159105989207978'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html?showComment=1246024594395#c6822159105989207978' title=''/><author><name>Syd</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='18179197056523991777'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1291125119245638640' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1291125119245638640' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-5079367179362080266</id><published>2009-06-25T22:07:02.589-07:00</published><updated>2009-06-25T22:07:02.589-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Eli, it makes me glad to know you are doing "Step-...</title><content type='html'>Eli, it makes me glad to know you are doing &amp;quot;Step-study&amp;quot; in a group, and you obviously have a sponsor? and got to meetings? and don&amp;#39;t drink, No Matter What?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My family used to write &amp;quot;KUTGW&amp;quot; &amp;quot;Keep Up The Good Work&amp;quot;!!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/5079367179362080266'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1291125119245638640/comments/default/5079367179362080266'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html?showComment=1245992822589#c5079367179362080266' title=''/><author><name>Steve E.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17498524940140288735</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/06/lillys-letter.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1291125119245638640' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1291125119245638640' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>