<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post1907306009454272978..comments</id><updated>2011-01-02T22:46:35.588-08:00</updated><category term='DXM'/><category term='addiction'/><category term='boundaries'/><category term='love addiction'/><category term='relationship'/><category term='funny'/><category term='vulnerability'/><category term='loss'/><category term='sexual abuse'/><category term='addict'/><category term='relationships'/><category term='service'/><category term='self care'/><category term='anxiety'/><category term='obsession'/><category term='slipping'/><category term='family'/><category term='Letting go'/><category term='anger'/><category term='character defects'/><category term='drug abuse'/><category term='bipolar'/><category 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type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.elihornby.com/feeds/1907306009454272978/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html'/><author><name>Eli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_7tGY06P6TBk/Skm2IQP9wfI/AAAAAAAAAPU/rk7mWRo7fQI/S220/eli_avatar2.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' 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I am new to blogging, but I created on...</title><content type='html'>Thanks Eli,&lt;br /&gt;I am new to blogging, but I created one to work through my own sex addiction, and so I found your blog when I searched for others talking about addiction. I think what draws me to read your blog is that as a female sex addicit, I have also been sexually abused and I relate to a lot of what you say but I also respond to certain things like someone that has been abused. Its definately tricky to have both. I think i&amp;#39;m &amp;#39;following&amp;#39; your blog so I look forward to reading your updates.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default/4350818411454641269'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default/4350818411454641269'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html?showComment=1293241611066#c4350818411454641269' title=''/><author><name>C.</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1907306009454272978' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1907306009454272978' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-918010420'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1620974963643472251</id><published>2010-12-22T23:11:57.572-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-22T23:11:57.572-08:00</updated><title type='text'>&amp;quot;C&amp;quot;- the last commenter that said they&amp;#...</title><content type='html'>&amp;quot;C&amp;quot;- the last commenter that said they&amp;#39;d read all of my posts was a spambot, so it&amp;#39;s nice to hear that from a real person. (I presume.) Taking time to read a blog in its entirety has got to be the ultimate complement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m glad you could relate to some of it. I hope that what I spill onto the page here is helpful to someone besides me. But I know it helps me and that&amp;#39;s enough by itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hope you are doing well and finding peace and healing. Stop by anytime.&lt;br /&gt;Eli</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default/1620974963643472251'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default/1620974963643472251'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html?showComment=1293088317572#c1620974963643472251' title=''/><author><name>EliHornby</name><uri>http://www.elihornby.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1907306009454272978' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1907306009454272978' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-918010420'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-4305705894905859338</id><published>2010-12-12T16:41:22.102-08:00</published><updated>2010-12-12T16:41:22.102-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I discovered your blog this afternoon, and I admit...</title><content type='html'>I discovered your blog this afternoon, and I admit I read all of your posts. I related to quite a lot. I don&amp;#39;t know if you&amp;#39;ll see this, looks like you haven&amp;#39;t blogged much lately. Thanks for your honesty, it was refreshing.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default/4305705894905859338'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default/4305705894905859338'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html?showComment=1292200882102#c4305705894905859338' title=''/><author><name>C.</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1907306009454272978' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1907306009454272978' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-918010420'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-6142674884531329394</id><published>2010-11-29T17:59:54.650-08:00</published><updated>2010-11-29T17:59:54.650-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Eli, since you and I have a sort of &amp;#39;history&amp;#...</title><content type='html'>Eli, since you and I have a sort of &amp;#39;history&amp;#39; on here, I&amp;#39;ll write freely--whenever has THAT not happened--grin!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I believe that music of almost any genre has great purpose. Even the &amp;quot;...shepherds heard the angels singing.&amp;quot; Shepherds for their part, were tending their flocks, not &amp;quot;fixing things&amp;quot;--I&amp;#39;m grinning!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And music (from Beethoven to Jon Bon Jovi) is powerful enough to lift the human heart and spirit above the frantic world of finance, consumerism, greed, and selfishness--I know all about that last one! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Recall that saying: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;Music hath charms to soothe a savage breast, to soften rocks, or bend a knotted oak.&amp;quot; William Congreve...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The best supportive thought is those &amp;quot;choirs of angels&amp;quot; filling the sky...and music IS nature--waves, harmonic sequences, rhythm, melody, sometimes expressive words. Did i make a point, Eli? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whenever teacher told us &amp;quot;five hundred words or less&amp;quot;, I always did 700 words, and have the low grades to prove it!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Blessings, and PEACE to you Eli, and your family.&lt;br /&gt;Steve E</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default/6142674884531329394'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default/6142674884531329394'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html?showComment=1291082394650#c6142674884531329394' title=''/><author><name>Steve E</name><uri>http://steveroni.blogspot.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1907306009454272978' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1907306009454272978' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-918010420'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-8714885962960444104</id><published>2010-09-10T05:01:43.631-07:00</published><updated>2010-09-10T05:01:43.631-07:00</updated><title type='text'>The real life to me is infinitely more interesting...</title><content type='html'>The real life to me is infinitely more interesting than the fantasy world. I never drugged or porned but I would imagine loss of self is the fall out from all of that.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default/8714885962960444104'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/1907306009454272978/comments/default/8714885962960444104'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html?showComment=1284120103631#c8714885962960444104' title=''/><author><name>Syd</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='18179197056523991777'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp2.blogger.com/_Fmmlmrd74OI/R6HenjSpkUI/AAAAAAAAAM0/rrl081cbBB0/S220/Syd44_jpg.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/09/magic.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1907306009454272978' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/1907306009454272978' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-780596731'/></entry></feed>
