<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post2045938785329940704..comments</id><updated>2010-04-23T11:42:09.770-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Eli Hornby: Entwined - Me and My Codependent</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.elihornby.com/feeds/2045938785329940704/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html'/><author><name>Eli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177</uri><email>eli@elihornby.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-8373628844857658449</id><published>2010-04-23T08:08:22.026-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-23T08:08:22.026-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Eli, have you or your wife read the books Codepend...</title><content type='html'>Eli, have you or your wife read the books Codependent No More, and Beyond Codependency?  Both are written by Melodie Beattie.  (Not sure I spelled the author&amp;#39;s first name right.  For some reason, I usually done.)  These two books gave me so much information about myself and about my family dynamics.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/8373628844857658449'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/8373628844857658449'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html?showComment=1272035302026#c8373628844857658449' title=''/><author><name>Patricia Singleton</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='02599658487057207769'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2045938785329940704' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2045938785329940704' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3539623200854014358</id><published>2010-04-13T15:03:23.197-07:00</published><updated>2010-04-13T15:03:23.197-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Invisigal, I appreciate your kind words. I hope yo...</title><content type='html'>Invisigal, I appreciate your kind words. I hope you come around again.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/3539623200854014358'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/3539623200854014358'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html?showComment=1271196203197#c3539623200854014358' title=''/><author><name>Eli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='06989643323805289225'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2045938785329940704' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2045938785329940704' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-497009942975490356</id><published>2010-03-19T19:27:00.942-07:00</published><updated>2010-03-19T19:27:00.942-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Hey, thanks for putting yourself out there like th...</title><content type='html'>Hey, thanks for putting yourself out there like this. Hope you don&amp;#39;t mind picking up a follower looking for some insight. It&amp;#39;s really awesome that there are people like you out there who are willing to put yourself out there like this.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/497009942975490356'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/497009942975490356'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html?showComment=1269052020942#c497009942975490356' title=''/><author><name>Diner Nighthawk</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18005642810763475029</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05776288323555829758'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2045938785329940704' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2045938785329940704' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-7518432599856738700</id><published>2010-03-01T16:09:40.182-08:00</published><updated>2010-03-01T16:09:40.182-08:00</updated><title type='text'>BTW, it's nice to read you.  Please don't stay awa...</title><content type='html'>BTW, it&amp;#39;s nice to read you.  Please don&amp;#39;t stay away.  You Experience, Strenth and Hope are often just what I need.  Your posts are unusually honest and insightful.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/7518432599856738700'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/7518432599856738700'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html?showComment=1267488580182#c7518432599856738700' title=''/><author><name>invisigal</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2045938785329940704' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2045938785329940704' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-565816102596008558</id><published>2010-03-01T16:07:56.236-08:00</published><updated>2010-03-01T16:07:56.236-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I have read your entire blog, Eli, and I think you...</title><content type='html'>I have read your entire blog, Eli, and I think you are a very brave man.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep trudging that road and I will see you there.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/565816102596008558'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/565816102596008558'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html?showComment=1267488476236#c565816102596008558' title=''/><author><name>invisigal</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2045938785329940704' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2045938785329940704' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-7404628835616937508</id><published>2010-03-01T14:18:39.436-08:00</published><updated>2010-03-01T14:18:39.436-08:00</updated><title type='text'>glad you are here and that you keep posting.</title><content type='html'>glad you are here and that you keep posting.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/7404628835616937508'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/7404628835616937508'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html?showComment=1267481919436#c7404628835616937508' title=''/><author><name>Annette</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15162361876666473618'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2045938785329940704' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2045938785329940704' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-9033697234749201378</id><published>2010-03-01T08:39:49.533-08:00</published><updated>2010-03-01T08:39:49.533-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Sorry to hear about the relapse. I think that deni...</title><content type='html'>Sorry to hear about the relapse. I think that denial by both the alcoholic/addict and the co-dependent spouse are equally painful and just go toward enabling the disease. I hope that things go well for you now.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/9033697234749201378'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2045938785329940704/comments/default/9033697234749201378'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html?showComment=1267461589533#c9033697234749201378' title=''/><author><name>Syd</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='18179197056523991777'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2010/02/entwined-me-and-my-codependent.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2045938785329940704' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2045938785329940704' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>