<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post2048582736888612924..comments</id><updated>2009-05-14T10:06:06.172-07:00</updated><category term='DXM'/><category term='addiction'/><category term='boundaries'/><category term='love addiction'/><category term='relationship'/><category term='funny'/><category term='vulnerability'/><category term='loss'/><category term='sexual abuse'/><category term='addict'/><category term='relationships'/><category term='service'/><category term='self care'/><category term='anxiety'/><category term='obsession'/><category term='slipping'/><category term='family'/><category term='Letting go'/><category term='anger'/><category term='character defects'/><category term='drug abuse'/><category term='bipolar'/><category 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term='spirit'/><category term='incest survivor'/><category term='extramarital affairs'/><category term='switching addictions'/><category term='working the steps'/><category term='grateful'/><category term='pills'/><category term='prayer'/><category term='adoption'/><category term='innocence'/><category term='friends'/><category term='vicodin abuse'/><category term='recovery'/><category term='counseling'/><category term='my kids'/><category term='perspective'/><category term='rage'/><category term='vacation'/><category term='denial'/><category term='thankful'/><category term='nicotine'/><category term='parenting'/><category term='program'/><category term='journal entries'/><category term='relaxing'/><category term='intimacy'/><category term='serenity'/><category term='feelings'/><category term='codependent'/><category term='fear'/><category term='powerless'/><title type='text'>Comments on Eli Hornby: Magic Trees</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.elihornby.com/feeds/2048582736888612924/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html'/><author><name>Eli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_7tGY06P6TBk/Skm2IQP9wfI/AAAAAAAAAPU/rk7mWRo7fQI/S220/eli_avatar2.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1137639107740509647</id><published>2009-05-14T08:50:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-14T08:50:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Eli, what I find fascinating is watching your marr...</title><content type='html'>Eli, what I find fascinating is watching your marriage grow and mature. It took me 20 years of marriage to stop looking at my husband and wondering why I had married someone so beneath my elevated plane of thinking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now I wonder how in the hell he put up with me all these years;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your writing is a pleasure to read.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/1137639107740509647'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/1137639107740509647'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html?showComment=1242316200000#c1137639107740509647' title=''/><author><name>Lou</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09496172669599418214</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_49hPnseMxYE/SbQRECwhqOI/AAAAAAAABcA/CzslJ-CI6Ks/S220/broken+heart.bmp'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2048582736888612924' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2048582736888612924' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-932610923'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1146023345981653216</id><published>2009-05-11T23:09:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-11T23:09:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>this is a beautiful post.  wow, what you have done...</title><content type='html'>this is a beautiful post.  wow, what you have done here, and the thoughts.  lovely.  thanks.  i haven't read before so I will have to catch up on your story.  thanks for reading me and for your kind comment, it gave me much to think on as I head to rest tonight.  peace, and best wishes.  hope to hear from you again...mile 191</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/1146023345981653216'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/1146023345981653216'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html?showComment=1242108540000#c1146023345981653216' title=''/><author><name>mile191</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12948235476841214379</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='13776488908266733273'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_oUUnOH8X9sM/SSG_Zia1K9I/AAAAAAAAAAM/y8wFlYbC_Ss/S220/ZazzleBytheCandlesLightreszedreszed1.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2048582736888612924' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2048582736888612924' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2028247398'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-8268906703744353422</id><published>2009-05-06T21:56:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-06T21:56:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Listen to Syd and Cat.

Gardening is a miracle. Es...</title><content type='html'>Listen to Syd and Cat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gardening is a miracle. Especially in sobriety. I've learned how to live by tending my yard.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pruning is one of my favorite things to do. When something's been neglected, it usually needs a lot of crap cut away to let the sun inside.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/8268906703744353422'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/8268906703744353422'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html?showComment=1241672160000#c8268906703744353422' title=''/><author><name>vicariousrising</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16354890444410748967</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_J0sh8Pa9yCg/SNajFmPPs_I/AAAAAAAAAAk/YBD5TaknTYQ/S220/screamAmigurumi.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2048582736888612924' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2048582736888612924' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1758625413'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-6279781582811484854</id><published>2009-05-06T10:30:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-06T10:30:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>and life begins again, stronger, newer, fresher th...</title><content type='html'>and life begins again, stronger, newer, fresher than before.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/6279781582811484854'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/6279781582811484854'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html?showComment=1241631000000#c6279781582811484854' title=''/><author><name>Cat</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16914656489970904052</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09859480893570822950'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='28' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_eCf-5I7yjco/SfPR9Ub83EI/AAAAAAAABEc/ctDY-5INV3Q/S220/cat1.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2048582736888612924' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2048582736888612924' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1582474952'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-850445127401683758</id><published>2009-05-06T09:36:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-06T09:36:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Trees have an amazing way of springing back. And m...</title><content type='html'>Trees have an amazing way of springing back. And maybe with a little watering, yours will too.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/850445127401683758'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/850445127401683758'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html?showComment=1241627760000#c850445127401683758' title=''/><author><name>Syd</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='18179197056523991777'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp2.blogger.com/_Fmmlmrd74OI/R6HenjSpkUI/AAAAAAAAAM0/rrl081cbBB0/S220/Syd44_jpg.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2048582736888612924' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2048582736888612924' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-780596731'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-6853961277751131862</id><published>2009-05-06T07:36:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-05-06T07:36:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>But its not about us. Its about you and you living...</title><content type='html'>But its not about us. Its about you and you living a *real* life. A life in honesty and light. And from the blog entries I read on your blog it sounds like that is exactly what you are working on doing. Forget what they pay you to do...be true to yourself. It serves everyone well, especially you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/6853961277751131862'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2048582736888612924/comments/default/6853961277751131862'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html?showComment=1241620560000#c6853961277751131862' title=''/><author><name>Annette</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15162361876666473618'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_2U3k0Hcv7zM/SISxxF6-AfI/AAAAAAAAABY/klETrdpatSA/S220/40257~Mother-and-Child-detail-from-The-Three-Ages-of-Woman-c-1905-Posters.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/05/magic-trees.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2048582736888612924' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2048582736888612924' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2061942651'/></entry></feed>
