<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post2349922277293848911..comments</id><updated>2009-03-09T14:32:22.871-07:00</updated><category term='DXM'/><category term='addiction'/><category term='boundaries'/><category term='love addiction'/><category term='relationship'/><category term='funny'/><category term='vulnerability'/><category term='loss'/><category term='sexual abuse'/><category term='addict'/><category term='relationships'/><category term='service'/><category term='self care'/><category term='anxiety'/><category term='obsession'/><category term='slipping'/><category term='family'/><category term='Letting go'/><category term='anger'/><category term='character defects'/><category term='drug abuse'/><category term='bipolar'/><category 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type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.elihornby.com/feeds/2349922277293848911/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html'/><author><name>Eli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_7tGY06P6TBk/Skm2IQP9wfI/AAAAAAAAAPU/rk7mWRo7fQI/S220/eli_avatar2.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>5</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-5570123481472889766</id><published>2009-03-09T14:30:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-09T14:30:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>So you'd get along with a conservative atheist in ...</title><content type='html'>So you'd get along with a conservative atheist in recovery with absolutely no musical ability! hehe&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I'm pretty congruent in my face to face life, but once you add blogging and facebook, it gets confusing for me. Without someone standing there, I lose track of my audience. I don't want my employer or my children to read words meant for other addicts.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;This was a great post. Gave me a lot to think about.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default/5570123481472889766'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default/5570123481472889766'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html?showComment=1236634200000#c5570123481472889766' title=''/><author><name>thegentlepath</name><uri>http://thegentlepath.wordpress.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/openid16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2349922277293848911' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2349922277293848911' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1110035192'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1903686035219100729</id><published>2009-03-09T12:32:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-09T12:32:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I can identify with pieces of this so well - the I...</title><content type='html'>I can identify with pieces of this so well - the I dont like to be noticed part, you sound like you are going places. Good for you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default/1903686035219100729'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default/1903686035219100729'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html?showComment=1236627120000#c1903686035219100729' title=''/><author><name>Cat</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16914656489970904052</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09859480893570822950'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_eCf-5I7yjco/SYz9QCCmclI/AAAAAAAAA-M/HHDnXm_s17w/S220/cater3.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2349922277293848911' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2349922277293848911' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1582474952'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-4288965211696952158</id><published>2009-03-06T16:36:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-03-06T16:36:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>"Maybe you use a Mac, love Jon Stewart, and shop a...</title><content type='html'>"Maybe you use a Mac, love Jon Stewart, and shop at Trader Joe's. Fine, we'll get tea!"&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Hey wait a minute... that's me, your brother!  :)&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Would it help to know that when I read about the wedding incident I didn't think "Wow, he's awful... how could he have done that?"  Instead I thought, "Hmmm, that sounds like a mistake I might make too."  &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;That's all I can write for now because I've got to get to pack up my Mac, run to Trader Joe's and pick up some stuff before meeting my friend for some (organic!) tea.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default/4288965211696952158'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default/4288965211696952158'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html?showComment=1236386160000#c4288965211696952158' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2349922277293848911' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2349922277293848911' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-864617188'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-5918830169628984154</id><published>2009-03-05T10:40:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-03-05T10:40:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>This is a fantastic, honest, beautiful post.  You'...</title><content type='html'>This is a fantastic, honest, beautiful post.  You've given me lots too think about.  I recognize so much of myself in what you're saying.  Thank you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default/5918830169628984154'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default/5918830169628984154'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html?showComment=1236278400000#c5918830169628984154' title=''/><author><name>Molls</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03977660817227506338</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_T3KiuLpEn84/SLSUEkC2rII/AAAAAAAAAEw/ORAyZarOMiA/S220/misc+7-18+004.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2349922277293848911' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2349922277293848911' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-86908779'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-5718310769904005591</id><published>2009-03-05T07:05:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-03-05T07:05:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>You've got me addicted (not funny! sorry) to your ...</title><content type='html'>You've got me addicted (not funny! sorry) to your story.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I hated opening up, but it really did make me a better person.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default/5718310769904005591'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2349922277293848911/comments/default/5718310769904005591'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html?showComment=1236265500000#c5718310769904005591' title=''/><author><name>Lou</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09496172669599418214</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='23' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_49hPnseMxYE/SZy_xO0QjAI/AAAAAAAABYk/iBJpeCYWuuM/S220/chest-x-ray-051306u000001-01-ga.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/out-of-isolation.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2349922277293848911' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2349922277293848911' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-932610923'/></entry></feed>
