<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post2923821703957293526..comments</id><updated>2009-04-26T21:56:46.149-07:00</updated><category term='DXM'/><category term='addiction'/><category term='boundaries'/><category term='love addiction'/><category term='relationship'/><category term='funny'/><category term='vulnerability'/><category term='loss'/><category term='sexual abuse'/><category term='addict'/><category term='relationships'/><category term='service'/><category term='self care'/><category term='anxiety'/><category term='obsession'/><category term='slipping'/><category term='family'/><category term='Letting go'/><category term='anger'/><category term='character defects'/><category term='drug abuse'/><category term='bipolar'/><category 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term='spirit'/><category term='incest survivor'/><category term='extramarital affairs'/><category term='switching addictions'/><category term='working the steps'/><category term='grateful'/><category term='pills'/><category term='prayer'/><category term='adoption'/><category term='innocence'/><category term='friends'/><category term='vicodin abuse'/><category term='recovery'/><category term='counseling'/><category term='my kids'/><category term='perspective'/><category term='rage'/><category term='vacation'/><category term='denial'/><category term='thankful'/><category term='nicotine'/><category term='parenting'/><category term='program'/><category term='journal entries'/><category term='relaxing'/><category term='intimacy'/><category term='serenity'/><category term='feelings'/><category term='codependent'/><category term='fear'/><category term='powerless'/><title type='text'>Comments on Eli Hornby: Nothing More Than Feelings</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.elihornby.com/feeds/2923821703957293526/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html'/><author><name>Eli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_7tGY06P6TBk/Skm2IQP9wfI/AAAAAAAAAPU/rk7mWRo7fQI/S220/eli_avatar2.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-5228549921091739992</id><published>2009-04-26T18:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-26T18:34:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Eli, I have something for you over at my blog...</title><content type='html'>Eli, I have something for you over at my blog...</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/5228549921091739992'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/5228549921091739992'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html?showComment=1240796040000#c5228549921091739992' title=''/><author><name>Annette</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15162361876666473618'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_2U3k0Hcv7zM/SISxxF6-AfI/AAAAAAAAABY/klETrdpatSA/S220/40257~Mother-and-Child-detail-from-The-Three-Ages-of-Woman-c-1905-Posters.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2923821703957293526' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2923821703957293526' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2061942651'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-6412079660350879945</id><published>2009-04-24T00:00:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-24T00:00:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Hi Eli

I have given you a blog award --

Mary LA</title><content type='html'>Hi Eli&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have given you a blog award --&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mary LA</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/6412079660350879945'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/6412079660350879945'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html?showComment=1240556400000#c6412079660350879945' title=''/><author><name>louisey</name><uri>http://louisey.wordpress.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/openid16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2923821703957293526' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2923821703957293526' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1568461933'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-198534172214638869</id><published>2009-04-23T09:56:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-23T09:56:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I do list's and then dont do list's like everythin...</title><content type='html'>I do list's and then dont do list's like everything in my life I am inconsistent... it makes me nuts...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I always thought if I worked harder, did better i could make anybody love me,,, it began in childhood and finally 40 years later I get that it does not work that way.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/198534172214638869'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/198534172214638869'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html?showComment=1240505760000#c198534172214638869' title=''/><author><name>Cat</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16914656489970904052</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09859480893570822950'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_eCf-5I7yjco/SYz9QCCmclI/AAAAAAAAA-M/HHDnXm_s17w/S220/cater3.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2923821703957293526' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2923821703957293526' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1582474952'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3991221357727437516</id><published>2009-04-22T03:19:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-22T03:19:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>This spoke to me..I'm a list maker extraordinaire....</title><content type='html'>This spoke to me..I'm a list maker extraordinaire. The more messed up my life, the more compartmentalized I made it. Funny, I can gauge my contentment on the number of lists I have going on. Thanks for an insightful post.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/3991221357727437516'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/3991221357727437516'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html?showComment=1240395540000#c3991221357727437516' title=''/><author><name>Lou</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09496172669599418214</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_49hPnseMxYE/SbQRECwhqOI/AAAAAAAABcA/CzslJ-CI6Ks/S220/broken+heart.bmp'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2923821703957293526' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2923821703957293526' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-932610923'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2143560811381151334</id><published>2009-04-21T11:40:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-21T11:40:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I don't run my life with lists anymore and it feel...</title><content type='html'>I don't run my life with lists anymore and it feels really good.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/2143560811381151334'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/2143560811381151334'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html?showComment=1240339200000#c2143560811381151334' title=''/><author><name>Syd</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='18179197056523991777'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp2.blogger.com/_Fmmlmrd74OI/R6HenjSpkUI/AAAAAAAAAM0/rrl081cbBB0/S220/Syd44_jpg.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2923821703957293526' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2923821703957293526' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-780596731'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-7872759200954456551</id><published>2009-04-20T14:38:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-20T14:38:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Great post Eli! Isn't it amazing that we always se...</title><content type='html'>Great post Eli! Isn't it amazing that we always seem to resort to "if I can only work harder..." I can avoid feeling, I can avoid having anything out of control, I can avoid...whatever. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I so know that one!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/7872759200954456551'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/2923821703957293526/comments/default/7872759200954456551'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html?showComment=1240263480000#c7872759200954456551' title=''/><author><name>Annette</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15162361876666473618'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_2U3k0Hcv7zM/SISxxF6-AfI/AAAAAAAAABY/klETrdpatSA/S220/40257~Mother-and-Child-detail-from-The-Three-Ages-of-Woman-c-1905-Posters.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/04/nothing-more-than-feelings.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-2923821703957293526' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/2923821703957293526' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2061942651'/></entry></feed>
