<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post3608062740404724512..comments</id><updated>2009-03-03T12:54:18.427-08:00</updated><category term='DXM'/><category term='addiction'/><category term='boundaries'/><category term='love addiction'/><category term='relationship'/><category term='funny'/><category term='vulnerability'/><category term='loss'/><category term='sexual abuse'/><category term='addict'/><category term='relationships'/><category term='service'/><category term='self care'/><category term='anxiety'/><category term='obsession'/><category term='slipping'/><category term='family'/><category term='Letting go'/><category term='anger'/><category term='character defects'/><category term='drug abuse'/><category term='bipolar'/><category 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term='spirit'/><category term='incest survivor'/><category term='extramarital affairs'/><category term='switching addictions'/><category term='working the steps'/><category term='grateful'/><category term='pills'/><category term='prayer'/><category term='adoption'/><category term='innocence'/><category term='friends'/><category term='vicodin abuse'/><category term='recovery'/><category term='counseling'/><category term='my kids'/><category term='perspective'/><category term='rage'/><category term='vacation'/><category term='denial'/><category term='thankful'/><category term='nicotine'/><category term='parenting'/><category term='program'/><category term='journal entries'/><category term='relaxing'/><category term='intimacy'/><category term='serenity'/><category term='feelings'/><category term='codependent'/><category term='fear'/><category term='powerless'/><title type='text'>Comments on Eli Hornby: Awake</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.elihornby.com/feeds/3608062740404724512/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html'/><author><name>Eli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_7tGY06P6TBk/Skm2IQP9wfI/AAAAAAAAAPU/rk7mWRo7fQI/S220/eli_avatar2.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-5613809071959237778</id><published>2009-03-03T05:19:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-03-03T05:19:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Hey dude..time for an update;)</title><content type='html'>Hey dude..time for an update;)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/5613809071959237778'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/5613809071959237778'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html?showComment=1236086340000#c5613809071959237778' title=''/><author><name>Lou</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09496172669599418214</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='23' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_49hPnseMxYE/SZy_xO0QjAI/AAAAAAAABYk/iBJpeCYWuuM/S220/chest-x-ray-051306u000001-01-ga.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3608062740404724512' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/3608062740404724512' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-932610923'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-5052594713869520203</id><published>2009-02-27T12:17:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-27T12:17:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I totally appreciate your openness on your blog.  ...</title><content type='html'>I totally appreciate your openness on your blog.  Just as I'm sure reading about the partners helps you, it helps me to have greater understanding of my husband's addictions when I get to read blogs like yours.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Thanks for popping over to my blog.  Welcome to the world of blogging.  It has helped me tremendously.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Ditto for me on dropping the "stupid".  Fill it with a word that calls to what you see as the greatest in yourself.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;"Get out of bed, Child of God"</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/5052594713869520203'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/5052594713869520203'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html?showComment=1235765820000#c5052594713869520203' title=''/><author><name>Willow</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10541343977234395980</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='01691290701094842300'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='20' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_42T_lQ2rvWg/SUEEaOgTbOI/AAAAAAAAACE/YsBKNlANhmo/S220/Meditation+avatar.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3608062740404724512' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/3608062740404724512' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-561084631'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-5201905091753263001</id><published>2009-02-24T11:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-24T11:57:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Great post.  I'm happy for you.  I agree about "st...</title><content type='html'>Great post.  I'm happy for you.  I agree about "stupid."</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/5201905091753263001'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/5201905091753263001'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html?showComment=1235505420000#c5201905091753263001' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3608062740404724512' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/3608062740404724512' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-133105672'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1675583416267597139</id><published>2009-02-24T09:16:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-24T09:16:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The words we use about ourselves most certainly go...</title><content type='html'>The words we use about ourselves most certainly go back into our ears and into our brains. With our mouth we can bless or curse even ourselves. Old habits die hard though. Keep on keeping on my brother.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/1675583416267597139'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/1675583416267597139'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html?showComment=1235495760000#c1675583416267597139' title=''/><author><name>Being Made New</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00673083057484101466</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11075778939936780067'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3608062740404724512' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/3608062740404724512' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-282652945'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-836722883965431325</id><published>2009-02-23T21:59:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-23T21:59:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Beautiful post, Eli.  Thanks for stopping by my bl...</title><content type='html'>Beautiful post, Eli.  Thanks for stopping by my blog.  It's wonderful to (virtually) meet you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/836722883965431325'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/836722883965431325'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html?showComment=1235455140000#c836722883965431325' title=''/><author><name>Mary P Jones (MPJ)</name><uri>http://www.aroomofmamasown.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3608062740404724512' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/3608062740404724512' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1017334987'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1299355411576238735</id><published>2009-02-23T09:51:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-23T09:51:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Good post &amp;amp; good comments. Keep on.</title><content type='html'>Good post &amp;amp; good comments. Keep on.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/1299355411576238735'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/1299355411576238735'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html?showComment=1235411460000#c1299355411576238735' title=''/><author><name>Lou</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09496172669599418214</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='23' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_49hPnseMxYE/SZy_xO0QjAI/AAAAAAAABYk/iBJpeCYWuuM/S220/chest-x-ray-051306u000001-01-ga.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3608062740404724512' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/3608062740404724512' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-932610923'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-7205998895242740543</id><published>2009-02-21T15:40:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-21T15:40:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Point well taken. All these little things we say t...</title><content type='html'>Point well taken. All these little things we say to ourselves really matter. Rather than beat up the guy who's "checking out" by sleeping, I can encourage the guy who's trying to participate in life, by getting up.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/7205998895242740543'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/7205998895242740543'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html?showComment=1235259600000#c7205998895242740543' title=''/><author><name>Eli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_7tGY06P6TBk/SLcmI1gTWoI/AAAAAAAAABk/iq8RhKlC_aM/S220/eli.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3608062740404724512' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/3608062740404724512' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1712269074'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-8964236618465366669</id><published>2009-02-21T04:55:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-21T04:55:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I agree with vicariousrising ... drop the stupid. ...</title><content type='html'>I agree with vicariousrising ... drop the stupid. After all, it's a promise of rigorous honesty and if you're going to be rigorously honest you'd have to say, "Get out of bed, courageous."&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;It takes guts to get up and live a sober day.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/8964236618465366669'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/8964236618465366669'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html?showComment=1235220900000#c8964236618465366669' title=''/><author><name>thegentlepath</name><uri>http://thegentlepath.wordpress.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/openid16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3608062740404724512' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/3608062740404724512' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1110035192'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3218857778562079232</id><published>2009-02-20T19:27:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-02-20T19:27:00.000-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Awake is good. I'd amend your morning mantra by dr...</title><content type='html'>Awake is good. I'd amend your morning mantra by dropping the "stupid." Otherwise, keep putting one foot in front of the other. Life among the living is grand.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/3218857778562079232'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/3608062740404724512/comments/default/3218857778562079232'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html?showComment=1235186820000#c3218857778562079232' title=''/><author><name>vicariousrising</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16354890444410748967</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_J0sh8Pa9yCg/SNajFmPPs_I/AAAAAAAAAAk/YBD5TaknTYQ/S220/screamAmigurumi.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/02/awake.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-3608062740404724512' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/3608062740404724512' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1758625413'/></entry></feed>
