tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post4773096613103450764..comments2009-03-10T09:07:38.268-07:00Elihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-11994516405571015362009-03-10T06:20:00.000-07:002009-03-10T06:20:00.000-07:00Eli,thanks for stopping by my blog. I'm glad that I found your site. It sounds like the best part was dancing with Linsey. Tender and loving. Good for you.Sydhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-12838085021199585472009-03-10T06:15:00.000-07:002009-03-10T06:15:00.000-07:00I wish we could hear the song. <BR/><BR/>If it helps at all, my brain seemed to settle down a LOT between 60 and 90 days. And that would be each time, not just the first, second, third, etc. I mention it because each time I managed to forget. Maybe sobriety chips should be little brains instead of circles.thegentlepathhttp://thegentlepath.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-1962241575678813192009-03-10T03:08:00.000-07:002009-03-10T03:08:00.000-07:00I'm glad things went well for you at the wedding. <BR/><BR/>You know, you shouldn't beat yourself up too much about not enjoying yourself at wedding reveptions in general. Lots of people don't like them. Like me. I guess I'm lucky my husband's not a huge fan either - and he knows it's best to get me out of a social situation when I've hit my cooked point - because we'll get out of there as soon as it is socially not rude (notice I didn't say acceptable. That's because sometimes we escape the first chance we think no one will notice we're gone). <BR/><BR/>When I drank, at first I'd be ready to leave an hour in. But by two hours in, I wanted to keep the place open all night. Yuck. I don't miss those days.vicariousrisinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16354890444410748967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-31501752933801085802009-03-09T19:51:00.000-07:002009-03-09T19:51:00.000-07:00I am so glad you danced with your wife and kissed her. Its the little steps my friend, that take us to the mountain tops.Annettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-71538183313862785692009-03-09T12:36:00.000-07:002009-03-09T12:36:00.000-07:00Some nights I wake up alone in bed and 'freak mode' goes on - without my being aware of it, I fear going to look for my husband because I do not want to know that he is gone if he is - that my trust has been broken after so much healing -I have been told it is compareable to post traumatic stress - you expect certain things after so many years - seeing that something else can happen is hard work and then accepting that it is there for good even harder. <BR/><BR/>Keep up the good work!Cathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16914656489970904052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-13147628517383430482009-03-09T03:26:00.000-07:002009-03-09T03:26:00.000-07:00Eli, that's quick!!!<BR/><BR/>Thanks, listen, I gotta go now yo my 7 AM meeting..Talk to you later. Need Email address, send to fiddle@naples.net please.<BR/>Steve E,steveronihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17498524940140288735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-39401238244358800712009-03-09T02:51:00.000-07:002009-03-09T02:51:00.000-07:00Wow, how tough to face feelings like this. But cut yourself a little slack..most people never look this far inside themselves. They just keep blaming the other person &amp; get divorced.<BR/>I&#39;m a strong believer that it takes two to make or break a marriage. I&#39;m skeptical when I read how it&#39;s all the other persons fault.<BR/>I think you are giving it your all, it can be painful &amp; raw. You are willing to own your stuff &amp; you write about it well.Louhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09496172669599418214noreply@blogger.com