<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post7124909417410245330..comments</id><updated>2009-04-14T10:47:39.344-07:00</updated><category term='DXM'/><category term='addiction'/><category term='boundaries'/><category term='love addiction'/><category term='relationship'/><category term='funny'/><category term='vulnerability'/><category term='loss'/><category term='sexual abuse'/><category term='addict'/><category term='relationships'/><category term='service'/><category term='self care'/><category term='anxiety'/><category term='obsession'/><category term='slipping'/><category term='family'/><category term='Letting go'/><category term='anger'/><category term='character defects'/><category term='drug abuse'/><category term='bipolar'/><category 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term='spirit'/><category term='incest survivor'/><category term='extramarital affairs'/><category term='switching addictions'/><category term='working the steps'/><category term='grateful'/><category term='pills'/><category term='prayer'/><category term='adoption'/><category term='innocence'/><category term='friends'/><category term='vicodin abuse'/><category term='recovery'/><category term='counseling'/><category term='my kids'/><category term='perspective'/><category term='rage'/><category term='vacation'/><category term='denial'/><category term='thankful'/><category term='nicotine'/><category term='parenting'/><category term='program'/><category term='journal entries'/><category term='relaxing'/><category term='intimacy'/><category term='serenity'/><category term='feelings'/><category term='codependent'/><category term='fear'/><category term='powerless'/><title type='text'>Comments on Eli Hornby: Falling and Not Falling</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.elihornby.com/feeds/7124909417410245330/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html'/><author><name>Eli</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05170906912542161177</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_7tGY06P6TBk/Skm2IQP9wfI/AAAAAAAAAPU/rk7mWRo7fQI/S220/eli_avatar2.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-6818579701580224955</id><published>2009-04-14T07:05:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-04-14T07:05:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Well done.  I love reading the posts about childre...</title><content type='html'>Well done.  I love reading the posts about children and recovery.  For it is through their eyes that we can truly measure our progress.  My kids are the yard stick by which I measure my growth in recovery.  When I am hurting them, then I know that I am "off" somewhere in my spiritual and mental fitness.  Time to get back on the horse (so to speak ;)  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope your little one is OK.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/6818579701580224955'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/6818579701580224955'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html?showComment=1239717900000#c6818579701580224955' title=''/><author><name>Kristin H.</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05608200630908006466</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='33' height='29' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Shi80GaPdgU/SXKucpQ_2WI/AAAAAAAAAwU/sfI-Mw6WWdI/S220/iStock_000006060092XSmall.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-7124909417410245330' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/7124909417410245330' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-642461903'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-8965474537472962676</id><published>2009-03-20T11:52:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-20T11:52:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I hope that Ashley is healing. I was thrown a lot ...</title><content type='html'>I hope that Ashley is healing. I was thrown a lot from horses but never broke anything except maybe my ego. You sound like a great dad.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/8965474537472962676'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/8965474537472962676'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html?showComment=1237575120000#c8965474537472962676' title=''/><author><name>Syd</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='18179197056523991777'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://bp2.blogger.com/_Fmmlmrd74OI/R6HenjSpkUI/AAAAAAAAAM0/rrl081cbBB0/S220/Syd44_jpg.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-7124909417410245330' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/7124909417410245330' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-780596731'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-8264654894799925804</id><published>2009-03-15T16:54:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-15T16:54:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>You are going to be OK. Someone in active addictio...</title><content type='html'>You are going to be OK. Someone in active addiction never cares what their children might see.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Good to hear from you.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/8264654894799925804'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/8264654894799925804'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html?showComment=1237161240000#c8264654894799925804' title=''/><author><name>Lou</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09496172669599418214</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_49hPnseMxYE/SbQRECwhqOI/AAAAAAAABcA/CzslJ-CI6Ks/S220/broken+heart.bmp'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-7124909417410245330' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/7124909417410245330' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-932610923'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-418621990425982507</id><published>2009-03-15T10:10:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-15T10:10:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>"And I was sober and I wasn't afraid." &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Isn...</title><content type='html'>"And I was sober and I wasn't afraid." &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Isn't that a beautiful thing?! I love this line from your post...it touched me somewhere deep. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Good for you. I also love the way you shared your unadulterated joy at being able to be someone's daddy. Precious stuff here. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Hope the arm heals quickly.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/418621990425982507'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/418621990425982507'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html?showComment=1237137000000#c418621990425982507' title=''/><author><name>Annette</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18326425173333184401</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='15162361876666473618'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='26' height='32' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_2U3k0Hcv7zM/SISxxF6-AfI/AAAAAAAAABY/klETrdpatSA/S220/40257~Mother-and-Child-detail-from-The-Three-Ages-of-Woman-c-1905-Posters.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-7124909417410245330' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/7124909417410245330' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2061942651'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-5958927666103559259</id><published>2009-03-14T19:55:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-14T19:55:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Your 'stories' are fascinating. Isn't it GREAT fee...</title><content type='html'>Your 'stories' are fascinating. Isn't it GREAT feeling(?) to be an 'adult' sometimes...and act 'grown-up'? Like learning how to walk after a broken leg repair! -grin</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/5958927666103559259'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/5958927666103559259'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html?showComment=1237085700000#c5958927666103559259' title=''/><author><name>steveroni</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17498524940140288735</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='19' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_RgG0VD7Bg0g/SWYYP5uuFII/AAAAAAAAAgc/XWsMHCH_3AQ/S220/IMG_0857.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-7124909417410245330' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/7124909417410245330' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1761618446'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-483889330059173406</id><published>2009-03-14T19:07:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-03-14T19:07:00.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I hope Ashley's hanging in there and her arm heals...</title><content type='html'>I hope Ashley's hanging in there and her arm heals quickly.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;My husband says he's grateful even for the painful things he goes through these days because he's present and not numbing everything away.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/483889330059173406'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/7124909417410245330/comments/default/483889330059173406'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html?showComment=1237082820000#c483889330059173406' title=''/><author><name>Mary (MPJ)</name><uri>http://www.aroomofmamasown.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.elihornby.com/2009/03/falling-and-not-falling.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4531906302983891705.post-7124909417410245330' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4531906302983891705/posts/default/7124909417410245330' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1478869063'/></entry></feed>
